Apr 6, 2018

How To Appear More Attractive

Have you ever been around someone that is just infatuating? These are the attractive people we want to marry, become more like, work with, spend time with, etc..

But why do these people appear so attractive? Besides being simply beautiful, physically fit,  or optimistic, what others qualities do these kinds of people have that are a little less obvious than just external beauty? Below are some not so subtle traits that I believe can make someone appear more attractive 😉




Maintain eye contact 

When it comes to attraction eye contact says a lot. A simple way to show someone that you’re interested in them is through eye contact. When you allow someone to look into your eyes for a longer period of time, you’re allowing them to see how you feel, because often times our eyes reflect our emotional state. When someone is insecure, they often have a tough time maintaining consistent eye contact.


Ditch self-comparison

One of the most unattractive traits I believe women can have is comparing themselves to someone else. You are uniquely and beautifully created just the way you are, and there is something only you can offer this world. Something I like to remember (especially when it comes to modeling) is that there will always be some taller, prettier, skinner, and more successful than you. If you’re constantly comparing yourself to those around you, it takes away from your own natural beauty and can be very unattractive as well. There’s is so much personal freedom in realizing that truth. So strive to continually become more like the person you want to be, and remember that everyone has a different pace to their unique journey, so don’t compare your chapter one with someone else’s chapter ten.




Smile often 

Not that I’m really smiling in the picture above, but I believe a smile is one of the most beautiful things a person can have. A smile says, ‘I’m happy and confident in who I am’. A smile radiates a sense of natural beauty and happiness and can have such a positive effect on others.


Invest in self-care

Taking care of your own wellbeing will not only help you feel better but will also allow you to give more to those around you. Self-care can be anything that nurtures you on a deep level. Giving to yourself through self-care does not necessarily require high amounts of effort or money. Giving to yourself can be as simple as taking 15 minutes a day for yourself, getting a massage, enjoying a healthy meal, or reading something that inspires you. Self-care can be different for everyone, and only you know what will satisfy your needs. When we do not practice self-care, we can often feel stressed, tired, and emotionally exhausted. It can be easy to forget our own needs, especially when we often find ourselves supplying the needs of others.




Stand tall (or wear a little heel!)

Standing up straight doesn’t come naturally to most of us, probably because it can take more of an effort rather than simply slouching. But, when you make a conscious decision to stand up straight (wearing some type of heel can definitely help!) not only helps elevate you but also makes you appear taller and more confident. If you’re not a fan of wearing a heel, something I like doing is pretending I have a string running from the floor all the way to the top of my head. When I picture myself standing up tall, I’m imagining that string being pulled upwards so there’s no slack. Naturally, this raises my chin, pushes my shoulders back, and pulls the stomach in tight, making you appear taller.


Leadership is attractive

I believe leadership qualities are in the heart of every human. Strong leaders are authentic, teachable, patience, exemplary and kind, and I truly believe we all naturally have those qualities inside of us. When you’re a leader you live a life of inspiring and helping others attain unique goals, and are confident enough to give people the credit instead of taking it for yourself and because of that people tend to look to you for guidance and assurance, and that’s SO attractive! A good thing to always remember though is that a leader is never bossy, rather set’s a path for those to follow.


I hope some of these tips have inspired you in some way! Let us know in the comments below some of your favorite subtle traits in helping one appear more attractive 😉



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  1. Tabitha

    April 6th, 2018 at 1:24 AM

    Very true and if you just do these things daily you are not only more attractive but you give out good vibes as well!

  2. Attained Beauty

    April 6th, 2018 at 5:21 PM

    SO true!

  3. Deeksha

    April 6th, 2018 at 1:40 AM

    I loved ur post! Awesome tips! ????????

  4. Attained Beauty

    April 6th, 2018 at 5:20 PM

    Thank you so much!!

  5. Safi

    April 6th, 2018 at 1:49 AM

    This is such a great post! These are all such important things and they make a huge difference in how a person is perceived!

  6. Attained Beauty

    April 6th, 2018 at 5:20 PM

    Thank you for the sweet words, Safi 🙂

  7. Sarah

    April 6th, 2018 at 2:09 AM

    I love your theme! These tips are really great – not often things that we take into consideration all the time! Eye contact is such a plus. I always notice when people aren’t afraid to make/keep eye contact with me. It says a lot about someone’s integrity in most situations.

  8. Attained Beauty

    April 6th, 2018 at 5:19 PM

    Thank you, Sarah! Eye contact is definitely a plus and can say so much about a person sometimes.

  9. Maya Griffin

    April 6th, 2018 at 2:22 AM

    I’m all for self care!!

  10. Attained Beauty

    April 6th, 2018 at 5:16 PM

    So important 😉

  11. Janet

    April 6th, 2018 at 3:42 AM

    Love this’. Going to share it in my fitness group! We try to work on our physical and mental health as a whole! These are great tips! Thank you!

  12. Attained Beauty

    April 6th, 2018 at 5:16 PM

    That’s so good to hear, thank you Janet!

  13. Carissa

    April 6th, 2018 at 2:08 PM

    This is absolutely beautiful, I love the advice.
    Thanks for sharing!

  14. Attained Beauty

    April 6th, 2018 at 5:15 PM

    Thank you, Carissa!!

  15. Nadia Komarova

    April 6th, 2018 at 3:40 PM

    This was a very interesting post for me I’ve never read anything like this before . I really enjoyed reading this really helped me .

  16. Attained Beauty

    April 6th, 2018 at 5:15 PM

    Thank you so much, Nadia! So happy to hear that 🙂

  17. Emily

    April 7th, 2018 at 2:42 AM

    Eye contact and smiling for anyone is a huge indicator of self-confidence to me. I think that they also make people feel much more comfortable!

  18. Attained Beauty

    April 7th, 2018 at 4:01 PM

    YES, definitely true!!

  19. Olga

    April 7th, 2018 at 8:29 AM

    Such a lovely post!Thanks for the tips:-)

  20. Attained Beauty

    April 7th, 2018 at 4:00 PM

    Thank you, Olga! You’re more than welcome 😉

  21. lavinya

    April 7th, 2018 at 10:24 PM

    Self care tip resonates with me! I’m forever always on the go and never really stop to take some me time! Always leaves me feeling strung out! Great tips! – x

    Lavinya Royes – Fashion & Lifestyle Blog

  22. Attained Beauty

    April 7th, 2018 at 11:58 PM

    I’m right there with you, Lavinya! Self-care definitely doesn’t always come naturally but when applied can truly make a difference!

  23. Prachi Maulingker Naik

    April 8th, 2018 at 10:16 AM

    100 % agreed on most of the points out there ❤
    Lovely article!!

  24. Attained Beauty

    April 9th, 2018 at 5:04 PM

    Thank you 🙂

  25. Face to Curls

    April 11th, 2018 at 4:31 PM

    You’re so beautiful and this is a great post with some great tips. x

    Ann-Marie |

  26. Attained Beauty

    April 11th, 2018 at 5:09 PM

    Thank you so much, appreciate that!! xxx

  27. Gail

    April 11th, 2018 at 7:43 PM

    Before anything else, I would just like to say that I’m obsessed with your web design. Especially the header!!!! <3

    Thank you for all these tips. I do think that Confidence could really make you look and feel more attractive. After all, it's all in the mind 😀

  28. Attained Beauty

    April 11th, 2018 at 8:39 PM

    Thank you so much for your sweet words, Gail 🙂

  29. Emily

    April 11th, 2018 at 10:05 PM

    I absolutely love this post – very true that “attractiveness” is not only measured in looks! Thanks for sharing!

    -Emily |

  30. Attained Beauty

    April 11th, 2018 at 10:33 PM

    Thanks, Emily 🙂

  31. Alessia

    April 12th, 2018 at 4:18 PM

    This is a great post! I like that you said how the qualities of a person can make someone be more attractive, which means that not everything is about the appearance. Well done! 🙂
    xo Alessia

  32. Attained Beauty

    April 12th, 2018 at 4:26 PM

    Thank you, Alessia! Looks can definitely fade over time, but the qualities or personality of a person can last a lifetime 😉

  33. Miki

    April 12th, 2018 at 7:19 PM

    Great tips! Resisting comparison is such a great one.


  34. Attained Beauty

    April 13th, 2018 at 8:24 PM

    SO true, thank you Miki xxx

  35. Gabrielle

    April 13th, 2018 at 11:50 AM

    These are all really great tips – they each make perfect sense! Standing tall (and/or being tall) definitely helps, as well as having the confidence to maintain eye contact as often as possible 🙂 Have a lovely weekend! x

  36. Attained Beauty

    April 13th, 2018 at 8:25 PM

    Thank you so much for your sweet words, Gabrielle 🙂

  37. Attained Beauty

    April 13th, 2018 at 8:25 PM

    Thank you so much for your sweet words, Gabrielle!!

  38. Nikki Lund

    April 14th, 2018 at 9:59 AM

    What a great post with great message! Most women today think of beauty as only external but it is so much more.

  39. Attained Beauty

    April 15th, 2018 at 10:15 PM

    So true, thank you Nikki! 🙂

  40. Paxton

    April 15th, 2018 at 10:27 PM

    Wonderful blog post! Both you and your post are beautiful.

  41. Attained Beauty

    April 16th, 2018 at 5:21 AM

    Thank you so much, Paxton xxx

  42. Limey

    April 17th, 2018 at 6:28 PM

    I love the facts how you made this so psychological and not physical. At the end it’s the inside that counts xx

  43. Attained Beauty

    April 23rd, 2018 at 7:28 PM

    Thanks, Limey 🙂 Beauty definitely fades with time, but true character lasts a lifetime!

  44. Lozza

    April 25th, 2018 at 2:48 PM

    I love this post! And your blog is amazing!!! xo

  45. Attained Beauty

    April 25th, 2018 at 8:14 PM

    Awe, thank you so much for your support! xxx

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