Feb 13, 2018

How To Truly Love Being Single

Use this time to learn about yourself… 


Being single is such a precious time to get to know and love yourself. When you spend time alone with yourself you start to become more and more confident in who you are, where your identity comes from, and what you truly desire in life. When someone has achieved these things it is so attractive, trust me 😉 Would you rather go from relationship to relationship never truly knowing and loving who YOU are, or wait until you’ve grown enough in yourself to attract something that won’t just work, but actually last?


“You cannot learn how to love someone else in a relationship until you learn to love yourself in singleness.”


Read a similar post here: ‘Learning How To Love Yourself’ 


Don’t chase anyone…


When you play hard to get (or chase someone) it put’s excitement around the chase, rather than on you. If you’re having to chase anyone, odds are they aren’t interested. And if they aren’t interested, then you shouldn’t be either. You should never have to prove yourself or your value to anyone.


“Who you align yourself with, and allow in your heart, will begin to guide what you do in your life.”


Read a similar post here: ’10 Signs A Guy’s Just Not That Into You’


Work on becoming the person you’d like to date… 


Growing up my mum would have my sister and I make a list of all the qualities we wanted to have in a man someday. Our list included things like honesty, leader, faithful, etc… After completing our list, she told us to first become everything on that list, and we would then attract just that.


“Become the person you’re looking for, is looking for”

Carl Lentz


Keep yourself busy with things that make you happy… 


The more time you spend being busy doing what you enjoy, the less you’ll focus on the negatives of being single. So join a community group, take up a salsa dancing class, travel to a foreign country, learn to play an instrument, or simply just spend time outdoors! Whatever you enjoy doing, do it with passion and enthusiasm-and who knows who you may meet along the process 😉


“Stop looking for happiness in the same place you lost it.”


Read a similar post here: ‘5 Things You Should Never Settle For’



Recognize that YOU are already enough… 


You are uniquely beautiful the way you are, and should never have to change that for the sake of pleasing other people. You are enough right now, and always will be. If anyone tells you otherwise than odds are they’re the one that knows they may not enough for you, and will often time put the blame or pressure on you instead of themselves.


“Always remember, someone’s effort is a reflection of their interest in you.”




I hope some of these thoughts have inspired your journey in some way! Let us know in the comments below some of the things you love and don’t love about being single.




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  1. Lydia Samson

    February 14th, 2018 at 11:38 PM

    I love, love this post! It is so true – you have to work on yourself more than anything. Great post!

  2. Attained Beauty

    February 15th, 2018 at 5:08 AM

    Thank you so much, Lydia!

  3. Fashion Charming

    February 15th, 2018 at 8:32 PM

    Love all these tips! xo

  4. Attained Beauty

    February 28th, 2018 at 11:23 PM

    Awe, thank you! xxx

  5. Miki

    February 22nd, 2018 at 4:34 PM

    Love this post. When my ex and I separated way before I met my husband, I took a 3 year hiatus on dating and absolutely loved it. Being with someone for years can make you lose some of your own identity. Rediscovering who you are, taking the time to chase your trips and travel the world is something that is so precious. I always tell people that they need to be in a place where they are happy. If they don’t love themselves, they cannot expect someone to love them either. While I’m not single anymore, I am fortunate to have found someone who only adds to my life and lifestyle, but I loved being single as well. 🙂


  6. Attained Beauty

    February 28th, 2018 at 11:26 PM

    Thank you so much for sharing that, Miki! It could be truer, taking time in between each relationship is so vital in not only re-discovering yourself but creating a lasting relationship with others. xxx

  7. suresh lukhi

    February 23rd, 2018 at 10:08 AM

    hey dear,i like your post, it’s a so important details,Amazing write-up,thanks for sharing…..

  8. zbymal

    February 25th, 2018 at 6:38 PM

    Thank you for this. I am familiar with the law.

  9. allison

    February 27th, 2018 at 8:42 AM

    Thanks so much for the post.Really thank you! Keep writing.

  10. Attained Beauty

    February 28th, 2018 at 11:23 PM

    Always, thank you for your sweet words, Allison!

  11. Demi

    April 11th, 2018 at 6:11 AM

    Seriously love this post! I really need to work on self-love. I used to read a lot of self-development books before my boyfriend came into my life. Now we’re doing long distance relationship so I need to start focusing on how to be alone and content with myself.

    Demi |

  12. Attained Beauty

    April 11th, 2018 at 5:14 PM

    Oh Demi, I’ve been in the same boat. Long distance can be so difficult at times but is also so rewarding! Truly leaning and practicing self-love, as well as being content with yourself, definitely helps with the whole process 😉

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